Society’s Fall from Grace

Society's Fall from Grace

by Rita Davidson


"... Society is growing ever more pagan ... The light of the Catholic faith is growing faint in Catholic souls ... The clergy is quite insufficient to cope with the necessities and needs of our times ... hence it is necessary that all men be apostles; it is necessary that the Catholic laity do not stand idle ... When our country is in danger, everything not strictly necessary, everything not bearing directly on the urgent matter of unified defense, takes second place. So we must act in today's crisis. Every other enterprise, however attractive and helpful, must yield before the vital need of protecting the very foundation of the Faith and of Christian civilization" - Pope Pius XI.



 We are all feeling the rush of society's falling from grace. It is a scary time to be living out the faith today. When all we are living for, seems against everything the world cherishes today, it seems easier to give up. But, we must remember, it will be because of our faithfulness to our Lord, if we are to win this war for souls.


Our daily rosary, our daily duty, love of God and man, and standing up for the truth when we can. God will surely reward those of His faithful souls who stood by him. Those souls that did not sleep, as the apostles did on the fateful day of His arrest. Let us be faithful, let us be zealous, let us be steadfast.

  How will God find you upon His return ?  Write below and share !


©Copyright 2012 Rita Davidson  All Rights Reserved.



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Rita is a Catholic wife and mother of seven children. She reverted back to the faith when her oldest was making her First Communion. In 1996, Rita began ‘Little Flowers Family Apostolates’ to reach out to other families with her new found faith. In 1999, she wrote the bestselling, ‘Immodesty; Satan’s Virtue’. She was editor of ‘The Catholic Health Letter’ for 7 years. A homeschooling mom for 20+ years, she has been honored that families have trusted her with their questions, needs and concerns over the years. She continues to write and reach out to Catholic families with her husband, Mark and their 4 boys; through

A Meditation on Time and Eternity



 A Meditation on Time and Eternity

By Rita Davidson



Not long ago, I was sitting here on a day where the children were out enjoying themselves. It was the rare and first time the house was so quiet that I could hear the clock ticking.

  Looking up from my chair, I pondered the noise. I looked at the clock as the minute hand sounded its way around the hour.

   In a flash I realized how long we find time passing sometimes. Like a long check out line, or in a long traffic line up. How slow time passes when we are young and long for our life to start. How we can't wait to have another birthday to reach that magic age that will somehow make things right?


   It was then I took a closer look at the minute hand and realized with each tick, there was a second I would never see again. A second that was then and is no more. A second belonging to the long age of eternity, but never to be seen again. Life is bittersweet like that, isn't it?


   As I realized this in all it's depth I realized how fast that second hand is actually moving. Tick tick moves us ever so closer to our destiny. Ever closer to our own death and the eternity beyond it. Are we prepared?


  Our son Andrew is 12, and has autism. He struggles with  understanding death, time, and God among other things. One day he suddenly became sad. I asked him what was wrong. He went on to tell me how as each minute is passing he will never see that moment again. He struggles with anything that marks time. New Years is another hard one for him. For him, he senses how fast this life is moving us towards our destiny. 


   What cares do we have if we are facing death at this moment? Do we care if it rains tomorrow, or what about that bill we forgot to pay. What about the car repair that came at the worst time for our budget. So much of the strife of our daily lives fall away to the important things when death is at our door...our faith, our children, etc..


   I pray that I spend each and every second of my life at least pining away for a glorious eternity. Not an austere saint, but one filled with life and an equal balance of recreation and piety that seems to be so rare in these turbulent times.


Next time you are sorrowing from a loss, or from some frustration with time. Take a look at your nearest clock with a second hand. Take a close look at that ticking and how fast it is actually moving and remind yourself, each of those seconds brings us one step closer to God, what could we be doing right now to help our souls and the souls of our children make it there with us?


 What do you think ? Leave me your comments and stories below ?



©Copyright 2012 Rita Davidson   All Rights Reserved



Rita is a Catholic wife and mother of seven children. She reverted back to the faith when her oldest was making her First Communion. In 1996, Rita began 'Little Flowers Family Apostolates' to reach out to other families with her new found faith. In 1999, she wrote the bestselling, 'Immodesty; Satan's Virtue'. She was editor of 'The Catholic Health Letter' for 7 years. A homeschooling mom for 20+ years, she has been honored that families have trusted her with their questions, needs and concerns over the years. She continues to write and reach out to Catholic families with her husband, Mark and their 4 boys; through


Our St. Therese Rose Bush story



As it's nearing June, our rose bush is in full bloom and it reminded me of a story I hope you'll all enjoy.

We moved in here 7 years ago. At that time we neglected to find out, where our septic system was. Not thinking it was very important at the time, we forgot about it for about a year. A day arrived when we figured it was about time we should look for it. Thinking it was simple we started digging here and digging there. No luck.


 We gave up and a year passed. We looked better at the lay of the land and tried to imagine which was it was all going. No luck. With a yard like ours you would think we could have it figured out. But when something is hidden and buried you really could be off by 10 inches and you are still lost.


 So we got in a local contractor. He poked and prodded our ground and was surprised he too came up with nothing. He felt sorry for us and never charged us but wished us luck.

 By this time, three years had passed and we were starting to think our septic didn’t exist. We started imagining some monsterous ‘thing’ was going on underground. We knew at this point we needed to start to get a septic pump as three years had passed. We were worried.


 So, one morning I got the idea, to pray to St. Therese. It just seemed the thing to do. Soon after I got a sudden urge to check at the rose bush. Sort of like when you spend hours looking for something and suddenly realize you didn’t look ‘there’.


 So, Mark and I got out there, not really thinking we’d find much and started poking the ground. Strangely all the prodding in this spot were the same depth. So, I prayed to St. Therese telling her if we found the septic, we’d name the rose bush after her.


 Sure enough, we seen a glimmer of cement! It took hours to dig enough to remove a cover and then another lid. Whoopee! There is was, right in sight of our house, in a direct line out from our bathrooms. Who would have known! (yes that is our St. Therese Rose bush at the top)


 She made us wait two whole years and had to promise her a rose bush in the process!

(yes, these are St. Therese's roses on our tree) 🙂

   Much like the prayers we seem to wait forever to get an answer. We pray and search and forget and pray again. Some intentions seem to never get heard. But, deep down we must remind ourselves that God is listening. He might be a little quiet right now, but He is waiting. He is giving us enough time to stretch our praying wings. Giving us enough time to make sure we really want this. Testing our patience to see if it will stretch a little farther. And when we do finally get an answer to prayer, it is sweet. Oh, it is such a good answer! After all that struggle for an answer, God makes sure we wait long enough to enjoy the sheer joy at having our prayer answered. Just another glimpse of heaven to come.

 Write your comments below. Your story of St. Therese, and what she has done for you ?

©Copyright 2012 Rita Davidson


Rita is a Catholic wife and mother of seven children. She reverted back to the faith when her oldest was making her First Communion. By then, she had completed degrees in Hairdressing and Make up artistry. She went on to receive a degree in Natural Health and another degree in Art. At age 26, Rita suffered a minor stroke. With no lasting effects, this dramatically changed her outlook on life. In 1996, Rita began 'Little Flowers Family Apostolates' to reach out to other families with her new found faith. In 1999, she wrote the bestselling, 'Immodesty; Satan's Virtue'. She was editor of 'The Catholic Health Letter' for 7 years. She has been a homeschooling mom for 20+ years, and has written for various magazines. She is honored that families have trusted her with their questions, needs and concerns over the years. She continues to write and reach out to Catholic families with her husband, Mark and their 4 boys through


"While there is light, Let us work! God's grace working in the world.



"While there is light, let us work!"



 I was reading this article, called "A Diet of Popcorn and Mindless Entertainment at the Movies" and I realized it was missing and important angle to it.

The article is here:

A Diet of Popcorn and Mindless Entertainment at the Movies. by Eric Mataxas

 Eric, goes on to give us a review of his going to see this movie with his daughter and coming out blank. Though he had nothing to complain about it in particular, it just to him, was mindless.


I have to say, most of our culture today is 'mindless' isn't it ? And that is tame. If we wanted to really learn something would we really go to a movie theatre to learn anything?
The purpose of a theatre, in my dictionary;

a play or other activity or presentation considered in terms of its dramatic quality: this is intense, moving, and inspiring theater.
• a movie theater.

 I think the first problem here is, Eric forgot this was a theatre.

Secondly, I think he forgot that we are living in the 21st century when, most public places have been taken over by secular entertainment.

 But one other problem I see in Christian circles is a kind of austerity that seeks to dwell only where fully Catholic/Christian things are. Granted, it is a wonderful position to be in, so full of faith that nothing of this world satisfies. This is the goal we are all working towards. But, problem is most of us are living in this world, just trying not to be 'of it'.

Many of us have children and bringing up families in this day and age is a challenging one. I will admit to enjoying, sometimes even mindless movies, if it happens to be clean and entertains after a long stressful day. As Eric shares, he went to the theatre with his daughter to enjoy the movie. While this particular movie might be tame compared to many Hollywood movies, (we haven't seen it yet) I hate it to be used to take away the little hope we have. Fr. Martindale once said, that "you will find an element due to an effect of Catholic working in the world." Meaning, that all good things we have in this world are examples of God's grace working in the world. Sometimes we just need to look a little closer to see it. I read this so long ago and have since always tried to find the element of the faith, hiding amongst the secular world. Proof that God is working behind the scenes.

Take Hollywood for example; What about the good movies that have come from Hollywood?

Movies of courage, hope, beauty, faith and more. Movies like The Village that shows us beauty and love again. Or how about Defiance, showing us courage and hope during a time of war. Recently there is For Greater Glory coming, about the Mexican Revolution. It's actually coming to threatres June 1st ! Akeelah and the Bee showed us hope and perserverance. The Passion, showed us for the first time, a real live Savior that we were moved to tears for. My shelves are filled with movies that were hand picked from all that Hollywood has put out. I agree there is much to be disliked in Hollywood. And much more to be feared! But with Clearplay viewers, there is a glimmer of hope. 

Fr. Martindale continues, "How careful, then, shall we be not to exclude with hostility what is not frankly Catholic - it is material on which, in which the Catholic Fa(ith) must work. How wise we shall be to seek out in anything that is, that which provides a point of contact, contains already a true and right ingredient."

We have hope that God's grace is still working in the world. Hope that for every dozen movies put out that belong on the trash heap, one small writer, producer puts out a movie of substance. Sometimes when I look at these directors its as if, they don't realize what they are doing. But, God is working through them reaching out to the world. Let us pray that more good family movies may come out of Hollywood. Let us pray for more Christian/Catholic producers to enter the field and start producing good quality movies. Let us take back a portion of that industry that has so much power to do good.

Let us find the glimmers of God's grace in this world, that we may bring our children up not corrupted, but strong in the faith and able to defend it with their very lives.


©Copyright 2012 Rita Davidson All Rights Reserved.

Facebook Concerns for Catholics ? Not for everyone



I've heard some concerns about Facebook and frankly this concerns me. In a time of worldly humanism there is no stopping society's demise into frenetic self-love. This we all agree. But to boycott Facebook because it promotes abortion, and other evil sins, seems a little 'one sided'.

Allow me to explain: If we are convinced to boycott Facebook, then we should consider boycotting Youtube for pornography and the entire internet for that matter!   Throw out the computers! Does that sound reasonable?

Extremism today is a slippery slope. We are all struggling to keep the world out of our lives. Struggling to keep our family’s safe and Catholic. Struggling to keep our children pure. Granted, we must be careful. I can't stress this enough. We all know ever since the internet came out, it was a way for the sick people of the world to get out their sick information. Pornography and more is available on the internet. I dare you to put in just one word in google that could bring up everything you've been worried about. Please don't do it. I've been on the internet for some 12 or more years. I have to say I have never had truly sick images appear before my mind all on their own. I have always used the internet for researching the Catholic faith, shopping for the Catholic faith, shopping for books or curriculm and similar searches. These have never got me into trouble. Your searches are what keep you safe. The ads you see pop up come from google keeping track of your searches and showing back to you what you just seen.

We once had concerns about the internet. But today we all use it. Today we are concerned about Facebook. But, Facebook doesn't have to be as scary as some might think. Facebook is a closed group; where you can only allow those you know on your page. Yes, of course, there are nasty people on Facebook. But, just as there are nasty things on Youtube, they are in their corner and you are in yours. Once you sign up, you set your privacy settings to private so you can keep everyone out. There is even settings now that you can set up groups on Facebook just like yahoogroups, where you have to join and only those who are members are included. So, Facebook is just an updated version of yahoogroups where we have had our OLLMPC modesty group for ages. It really is just another online tool.

Granted some people spend all their time posting pictures about themselves, but that is a personal choice. It doesn't have to be this way. I visit with plenty of good Catholics on Facebook. You can post your prayer requests on your group for others to pray for. You can post Novena reminders. You can ask others to join you in a Rosary Novena, the ideas are endless really. Others I've seen post religious pictures and post religious quotes. I learned about my Aunt Irene dying this past Christmas through Facebook and sent my condolences this way. Why can't we take back these tools that are out there and use them for God's purposes? Just like guns can't be banned because criminals use them, it doesn't make sense to boycott Facebook because of the bad people out there that use it. But we must be wise and clever as serpents too.

Granted Facebook is not for everyone and I perfectly understand people wanting to stay out of it. I'm sure some families reading this may have even been burned by the internet. My heart goes out to you!  In no way will I stop my emails only to use Facebook. Some of you expressed concern of that. But it is just another tool we are using to reach out to Catholics on there. Just another way we can open up our life a little and share a bit more of our day to day here. Everything we do online today, we must be careful. We must monitor our children on the internet absolutely! Just like we are careful what we put on the TV's in our house. Today we must find ways to use technology, but not let our family get burned in the process. It is truly a trying time to live. But as adults, if we are careful we can find many gems of Catholic places online that are safe. Catholic forums, Catholic businesses, Catholic movies and more. We must be the light in this dark world so that faithful Catholics can stay connected in our online catacombs. All that is needed for evil to grow, is for good people to do nothing.

What do you think ? Leave me your thoughts here.